How messed up is it that, when it comes down to choosing between your best friend and your boyfriend, you will inadvertently choose your boyfriend. Even knowing that your best friend has always been there for you and your boyfriend will most likely, though you may want to believe otherwise, not be around long. How messed up is it that we throw away those who truly care unconditionally for you. At the end of the day, your friends are the ones who will catch you when you fall and we are willing to push them away. That’s pretty messed up. I am guilty as charged.